Was He Married and Divorced? Benefits of Public Divorce Records
Posted on : 20-12-2009 | By : admin | In : Public Divorce Records
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Reasons to get Public Divorce Records
They say how it starts is usually how it ends. My baby sister Shelly was head over heels in love with this guy she just met. My first impression of him was not very good. I met them both out for dinner at Applebees one evening. I have to admit I’m pretty protective of my baby sister especially when I noticed the guy she just started to date was 10 yr’s older than her. I still refer to her as my baby sister, but she’s actually 36 years old.
I won’t say the guy’s name, but he came across initially very arrogant. He told me he used to be a commercial pilot for a couple of years and that he did this and that, but currently unemployed looking for work. I gave the guy the benefit of the doubt. Because I just met him that day and the economy is still in a recession; I could understand the part of being unemployed.
In the back of my mind, there was just something about him, I didn’t trust. I was fine with whatever my sister wanted as long as she was happy. She called me around one & a half or maybe around 2 months after they started dating to tell me he proposed to her. I felt bad I didn’t say congrats, but instead “you’re kidding right?” Shelly wasn’t too thrilled about my lack of enthusiasm.
That’s when I got seriously nervous about this guy. That week, I started to ask her more about him so I could get more information to do a little background check. I didn’t tell my Shelly because I know she would kill me. If he checks out, then that’s that.
What I ended up finding out was he was currently married and there was also public divorce records on him was well. I invited Shelly over one night so we could hang out. When I showed her the public documents his first divorce records, she started to cry. We argued and cried together, but I got her to agree that we confronted him. I suggested the next day, but she insisted that we do it that night. I went back to Shelly’s and had my brother meet us there.
He must have noticed something was up seeing our brother at Shelly’s house, who he’s never met before. I couldn’t believe the guy tried to lie his way out of it. He said he was officially separated from his wife and that they were going through a divorce. We asked if he was ever married before. He lied about that as well.
After I finally pulled out the public divorce records and his marriage record did he come out and confess. He said he loved her and that he didn’t want her to judge him. I said…TOO LATE! We kicked him out. Shelly agreed that she would end it.
I encourage woman and guys to do their research on their fiancé. It’s better to be safe than sorry. I would start with any divorce records then marriage records. How it starts is usually how it will end.